Dear child,
Growing up happens fast. It’s not about the numbers that we keep count of but the person you slowly and unknowingly become. The level of understanding you start to attain. Being grown up is beautiful, but I must advise you;
Recognize the job trap. Being jobless does not mean being useless, because feeling useless often ends in feeling life is meaningless. Literally! Man shall not live by bread alone. Do not become an adult with all to live by but nothing to live for, with all the means but no meaning.
When you come to the cloud that will for a period, wrap your silver lining. Beware of the three brothers; depression, aggression, addiction. They come in bottles; they come as cancer sticks caked with nicotine; they come as colorful foil packed capsules. They are often one small thing that begs you indulge, just once. Beware of fleeting satisfaction. The devil is not one big demon we slay once, but the little nothing's that come dressed as pleasures to which we must constantly deny ourselves.
Your conscience is not a nagging wife, it is a cautious guide; the rudder of your ship, your inbuilt constitution. Do not murder it with constant ignoring. What a man can do once, he might do again. It is easier to curb the first desire than it will be to satisfy the one’s that will follow.
Have new experiences. Soon you will begin to forget the last time you did something for the first time. Routine and passivity sets in. Experience is as valuable as achieving. It is the inward companion to its outward counterpart. After all you keep your achievements for the world but your experiences are all you keep for yourself.
Most things in life are like fine china, you will learn this with time. They break with ease. Do not let anything that breaks leave you broken; Relationships, dreams or trust. Fear generalization, what applies to some does not apply to all.
You were not made to be perfect. Adulthood comes with a bucket of excuses where you can pick when you go wrong. “The devil made me do it?”, “It’s because of the bad economy”, or my favorite “I had to do it”…. stop it! You can be wrong, you will be wrong. Explain but do not excuse. Take responsibility. Seek forgiveness and forgive yourself.
Finally, never forget you don't live once. You live daily through your good decisions, and die daily still by the bad ones. Believe in faith, but leave nothing to chance. In the words of Viktor E. FrankL “if you must howl with the wolves remain a sheep in wolves clothing”.
COAL seeks to see a literary society of youths who will promote African literature through spoken word and creative writing.
Wednesday, 31 December 2014
Saturday, 27 December 2014
My oeuvres stare at me with a frown,
For they lie unrecited
Cos I have not an audience
I fear: even the third eye blind
Shimmering of darkness with fickle sparks,
Became the order I fret,
The change I never embrace
And the pain I hide from
Gulped hard bones that still choke my
throat
How can the powers flow through the eye
above my eyes
And down to the passage of my gullet
How can it ever get to my navel?
Gird itself round my loins
For my centres are all blunted
Like Adam I ate the forbidden fruit and ran
from the garden
Partake of the tree of life they said
Even that I tasted yet my soul lies in this
void
Uncanny like my paranormal mates
We lie in dust, folly and nothingness
We speak words of gods yet we lay in waste
We are crown with wisdom, yet in folly we
abide
Our many oeuvres sleep in journals, laptops
and more
Hoping that death may come in haste
And maybe a dimwit dares put them in print
I bet the world will be doomed of our
madness and sweetness
As
of old, I remember Mr Allen, Cayce, Collier and many from ages gone
Like them we hope to be,
But we forget the centre within the centre
of their mysteries
It is simple, nothing from the usual.
Even in this emptiness He beckons
As I watch nature’s voice
And hear humanity’s fear
As I lie poised in the melodious noise they
make
Still I see Him, hear Him and even touch
Him
And He knows I hate Him not neither my
mates
We love Him more than love
We worship Him more than nature
In Him, we live, move and have our being
Like poets of old.
We, I, just hate religion
But, we, I,miss CHRIST in RELIGION.
May our oeuvres find an audience who
understands love like Love.
Sunday, 21 December 2014
Forget Feminism and be a woman.
Feminism is the new black. Any woman who prefers to make a lot out of her supposedly little self must be either a self acclaimed or society proclaimed feminist. I have come to despise this stereotype that puts together in a box of rebellion, outspokenness, and ambition all women who dare to want to be something. So after one too many confrontations with friends and strangers I want to state publicly I do not know what feminism is I only know about being a woman.
A woman earns her respect by being respectable, working for what she desire's and not waiting on a man like a sunflower waits for the sun to bloom. A woman believes in the values of marriage but it isn't the only thing she's defined by. A woman does not challenge the strength of a man; she only refuse's to be called weak because she is a woman.
Daisy Odey.
Friday, 19 December 2014
Why wait for 1/01?
Our flight through 2014 is slowly coming to its climax, the end of another short year with many long days. At this juncture if you, like myself made resolutions, promises, and goals at the beginning of the year you might be taking stock. Assessing the kept, the fulfilled, and the never attempted. Satisfaction being equal to how many do’s we got round to achieving.
Fact is, we often know what we need to do. The poisonous darlings we ought to kill, the habits we should break, but we all prefer to wait for the famous first of January to begin.
We must realize the New Year is just that, a new year. It does not suddenly confer on us greater self discipline or stronger will power. You want to shed some weight? Forget the first of January, start running today. Need to quit smoking? Don’t smoke. The company that’s doing you no good, if you intend to cut the strings in the New Year you might as well cut them now. Better sooner than later.
Today, tomorrow, any day is equally appropriate. You do not need to plan towards being a better you next year, embrace the new year with you being better, healthier and wiser.
Thursday, 18 December 2014
Monday, 15 December 2014
AFRICAN FEMALE WRITERS AND THE RISE OF FEMINISM IN THE 21ST CENTURY.
written by Andrew Patience (AP)
In Africa, there has been a popular
misconception over the years about ‘feminism’. It had often been
regarded as a western concept, but African women, particularly writers
have continuously redefined this concept to suit their own purposes.
This in turn is influencing African women and women around the globe.
Feminism like any other human concept has
a history. Traditionally, it could be divided into three waves. The
first wave of feminism dates back to the nineteenth and early parts of
the twentieth century. This does not mean that feminism or the feminist
movement did not exist prior to this time.
In Africa, the rise of feminism dates
back to the early twentieth century with the rise of women like Adelaide
Casely-Hayford, the Sierraleonian women right activist referred to as
the ‘African Victorian feminist’, with other women such as Charlotte
Maxeke of South Africa, Huda Sharaawi of Egypt who established the
‘Egyptian Feminist Union’ in 1923, Lilian Ngoyi, Margaret Ekpo and
Nigeria’s Funmilayo Anikulapo-Kuti amongst others. These women fourth
against colonialism, patriarchy often through protest.
Modern feminism was coagulated during the landmark UN decade for women in
1975-1985 which resulted in feminist activism and scholarship
spreading across the continent. Since then, African feminism has
developed in policy, legislation, scholarship and also in the cultural
realm. Feminism in Africa has to do with grassroots or cultural activism
as well as intellectual activism with issues relating to poverty
reduction, violence prevention and reproductive rights as well as
lifestyle, popular culture, equality of the sexes, media, art and
culture.
Today, African feminist scholars,
activists, artists, politicians and particularly writers are at the
forefront of using activism, knowledge and creativity in changing issues
and situations that affects African women negatively.
In Africa, one cannot talk about feminist
writers without going back to history to study the first African
feminist writer, Mariama Ba of Senegal. She is the author of ‘So Long a
Letter’ and Scarlet Song. Her book ‘So Long a Letter’ has been regarded
by scholars as the first truly African feminist book as it describes the
woman’s condition in an African and Muslim society. The book explains
the place of women in society, the effect of polygamy on women and the
clash between modernism and traditions.
Mariama Ba, at an early age observed in
her society how women were unequally treated and how they were just used
as tools to satisfy and work for their husbands who have not just them
but other wives. She began to question some of these things. She
struggled to go to school because the society she found herself did not
believe that a girl child should have any form of formal education. She
later got married to a member of parliament but divorced him and she was
left to cater for their nine children. Her frustration with the fate of
African women and her perception of it was what motivated her to write
her first book ‘So Long a Letter.’ Mariama Ba felt that African people
should reduce the deleterious impact of their culture. Her works have
inspired lots of female writers in Africa and she for created a platform
for other female writers to air out their displeasures about society by
using the art.
In the twenty first century, writers such
as the Egyptian novelist, essayist and physician Nawal El-Saadawi have
done greatly in addressing issues affecting women in North Africa. Her
works majors on the oppression of women and desire for self expression,
paying particular attention to the practice of female genital cutting
which has caused so much damage to a good number of female children. Her
books have been banned in Egypt and some other Arab countries. Yet her
persistence and determination has not reduced in any way as she
continues to write books and articles addressing various negativisms
against women in Africa. In her book ‘Women at Point Zero’ Nawal
El-Saadawi writes ‘‘They said, ‘‘You are a savage and dangerous woman.’’ I am speaking the truth and the truth is savage and dangerous.’’
Another African writer who is using her art, articles, interviews and paper presentations in addressing feminist issues in Africa, particularly Nigeria is the young novelist and poet Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. She also feels that the concept of feminism has been misunderstood; she uses her observance of society and personal experiences in addressing feminist issues. According to her, a feminist is ‘‘A man or woman who says yes, there is a problem with gender as it is today and must fix it and must do better.’’
Adichie in buttressing her point as a feminist decided she would preferred to be addressed as a ’miss’ and not a ‘Mrs’ although married. She feels that what is regarded as culture or norms has affected how
women see themselves in Nigeria, she went on to argue that the issue of virginity should not be overemphasised to just the female child but also to the male child.
Another African writer who is using her art, articles, interviews and paper presentations in addressing feminist issues in Africa, particularly Nigeria is the young novelist and poet Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. She also feels that the concept of feminism has been misunderstood; she uses her observance of society and personal experiences in addressing feminist issues. According to her, a feminist is ‘‘A man or woman who says yes, there is a problem with gender as it is today and must fix it and must do better.’’
Adichie in buttressing her point as a feminist decided she would preferred to be addressed as a ’miss’ and not a ‘Mrs’ although married. She feels that what is regarded as culture or norms has affected how
women see themselves in Nigeria, she went on to argue that the issue of virginity should not be overemphasised to just the female child but also to the male child.
She identified the wrongs that have
become rights in the Nigerian society simply because few people have
been able to challenge these wrongs. She gave a practical example of how
she and a male friend called Loiu went to an establishment in Lagos and
a man offered to park her car and afterwards, she offer him tip. But
the man turned to Loiu and said ‘Thank you sir.’ Loui turned to Adichie
and asked ‘why is he thanking me, I didn’t give him the money.’’
Realization dawned on Loiu that the man thought ultimately that
Adichie’s money must have come from a man.
Her works have gained recognition
internationally and she has continuously and tirelessly talked about
women liberation and equality of the sexes in Africa.
Another writer worthy of note is the poet
with roots in Uganda’s mountain, Jessica Horn. Horn has committed her
creative and professional life in exploring the experiences of women and
advocates
for the respect of women rights. As a women right consultant, Jessica Horn is a founding member of ‘African Feminist Forum and lead author of the BRIDGE cutting Edge Pack on Gender and social movement. Also as co-editor of ‘Our Africa on open Democracy 50.50,’ she has written several articles in spreading her message and beliefs of how women should be seen, treated and respected in society. She is of the opinion that the real catalyst for women liberation is not by force or discourse but by the revolutionary power of love.
for the respect of women rights. As a women right consultant, Jessica Horn is a founding member of ‘African Feminist Forum and lead author of the BRIDGE cutting Edge Pack on Gender and social movement. Also as co-editor of ‘Our Africa on open Democracy 50.50,’ she has written several articles in spreading her message and beliefs of how women should be seen, treated and respected in society. She is of the opinion that the real catalyst for women liberation is not by force or discourse but by the revolutionary power of love.
One may ask, what is the relationship
between literature and feminism? Literature is a tool for self
expression and with the liberation of some sort of women to study any
course of their choice has helped
in exposing and enlightening women of their intellectual capacities, creativity and confidence in addressing issues that affects their total liberation in one way or the other.
in exposing and enlightening women of their intellectual capacities, creativity and confidence in addressing issues that affects their total liberation in one way or the other.
Women have now been allowed to
participate in governance and other sectors of the society while some
have chosen to become writers, sharing their experiences, creativity in
fiction and maximising their intelligence towards positive contributions
in society. It is therefore no surprise that many African female
writers are using the medium to seek and pursue their own purposes in
the equality of the sexes and the total liberation of the female gender
from any form of society’s subjugation over them.
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